The Art of Uncoupling
Chapter 5: Returning to Me Without Destroying You

"When you are fighting over dishes, arguing over a lawnmower, battling over a lamp, it is time to stop and go within. It's time to become aware of the symbolic meaning of these items. What does that lamp represent? What do those dishes represent? When you go within and truly understand what certain items mean to you then it does not become an issue to be resolved by a lawyer at $350.00 per hour. It becomes an internal issue that you become aware of. It becomes an internal issue that you can bring healing to.

I am not saying you will not get these items. What I am suggesting is that when you take the time to know the real reasons why you want these things, you will be able to differentiate between what you really want and items you just don't want your spouse to have."